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Darin Evans (married with three teenage children), a former pastor and Young Life leader in Elmhurst, IL.  was arrested and charged with criminal sexual assault and aggravated sexual assault.  The  victim of the assaults was 16 years old when the sexual assaults started.  One report claims that the female victim was told by Evans, that he would kill himself if she ever ended the relationship.

Another report describes the assaults:

From 2004 to 2011, Evans allegedly sexually assaulted his victim on multiple occasions at multiple locations, including his vehicle, public places and on a church-sponsored youth retreat, according the State’s Attorney’s Office.   ABC News is reportingthose locations included cemeteries and restrooms.

Evans has confessed to the relationship and now faces a possible 47 years prison sentence if convicted of all the charges.

You can read more about this tragedy by clicking on the links below.

http://elmhurst.patch.com/groups/police-and-fire/p/former-associate-pastor-elmhurst-west-suburban-church8fb6b85907

http://elmhurst.patch.com/groups/police-and-fire/p/former-associate-pastor-of-west-suburban-community-ch52bad206ea

http://elmhurst.patch.com/groups/police-and-fire/p/new-details-emerge-about-associate-pastor-s-alleged-s743d820151

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A middle school in Western Washington State, is launching an investigation into Young Life and their “recruitment” of students on school property.  You can read the article here.

The article highlights many of the concerns I, and others have expressed about Young Life.  If you have the time, take a look at the article’s uploaded documents of Young Life’s leadership job description.  I find it interesting, that nowhere in this document, does Young Life acknowledge a need to inform the parents of students they meet of their intentions to convert their children.

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Eric asked a good question that I didn’t want to get lost in the comments of Is Young Life a Cult .

He asked

“does Young Life employ cultic tactics, or do cults and cultish organizations instead use legitimate techniques and manipulate them to accomplish what they want to do?”

The short answer, is that Young Life employs tactics common to cults in many (not all ) instances.  Of course, this is just my own opinion. But it is how I see the issue.

Befriending a vulnerable demographic (teens who are minors) without consent and without being up front about motive is cultic. It’s similar to the tactics of the Boston Church of Christ and Amway.

Friendship, enmeshment, and then indoctrination.

It’s a cultic tactic no matter how you slice it. It doesn’t mean that you or other leaders are not good people or that you don’t really love…

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Jorgan E. Cattin was sentenced to a 4 year prison term after pleading guilty of operating a crime ring.  The crime ring consisted of High School students he had met during his time as a volunteer Young Life leader in Southwest Washington state.

The group, including Cattin was convicted of a number of property crimes and thefts before being uncovered by police.

You can read the local media coverage about this case below:

http://www.columbian.com/news/2012/nov/21/crime-ring-leader-gets-4-years-in-prison-group-inc/

http://www.columbian.com/news/2012/oct/23/crime-ring-leader-pleads-guilty-to-7-charges/

Just came across this post by the Slactivist about Young Life.  I’m guessing his roomie was a Youth ministry major at Eastern University in St. David’s, PA.

Just a guess, having lived in the neighborhood and heard many a student refer to the Youth Ministry department as being run by Young Life.

Check out his post and the 300 plus comments that follow.

WLIE (Why Young Life is Evil)

 

 

 

I want to give Young Life credit in this case.  It seems that when Young Life became aware of possible sexting going on between one of its leaders, Jason Curry, and three teen boys he had met through Young Life; Young Life fired Mr. Curry from staff and informed police of the alleged crimes.

Police then investigated and arrested Mr. Curry for allegedly sending overtly sexual texts (no images) to three teenage boys, ages 14-17.

Terry Swenson of Young Life stated “”We are saddened by and will not tolerate any behavior by a Young Life leader that is inconsistent with Young Life’s commitment to the safety and well-being of kids.”

You can read a local press report here, and Young Life’s official response here.

I was unable to find any current updates on the case as to whether Mr. Curry has been tried or made a plea.  I’ll be sure to update this post when more information avails itself to the public.

 

This is another case of a Young Life area director being convicted of sexual misconduct.  Mr. Mark Steven Holm , age 54, was the area director for Young Life in East Central Minnesota and has plead guilty to sexual relations with a 17 year old member of his Young Life club.

What’s especially concerning, is that one of the sexual encounters happened at Young Life’s Castaway property.  How is it that a grown man and a 17 year old Young Lifer can steal away and have sex while being at camp?  This should raise concern for any parent considering sending their teen to camp.

One news report captures the pain of the victim’s mother, you can read the article here:

“On the day that I picked up her cell phone and read all those texts, my world shattered. Everything that I had spent 17 years trying to protect was gone. I can’t describe the horror I felt.”

Those words were spoken by the mother of Mark Steven Holm’s victim during sentencing on Thursday, Nov. 17 in 10th District Court in Cambridge.

If that’s not bad enough, then the following is even more bizarre and disturbing.

“They had also exchanged photographs via their cellphones with one of those photographs being of Holm naked.”

“The victim said in the complaint that she and Holm had also discussed running away together as well as committing suicide, with the last option being made to look like an accident. Conversely, the victim said in the complaint she had also tried to end the relationship on several occasions to no avail.”

Although it wasn’t read in the courtroom, the victim provided the court with a statement.

“Because of Homer and how he manipulated me, I have a difficult time trusting men. In fact, I don’t. He pushed me away from my family and my friends,” she wrote. “I lost all sense of right and wrong. At one point, he had so much control over me  that he had me thinking that suicide was the only way out for both of us….”

““I lost so much innocence that I will never get back. My life will never be the same, and I hope he never has the opportunity to change someone else’s life like he did mine,” she continued.”

““The last year of our life has been a nightmare,” said the victim’s mother. “It was supposed to be one of the greatest years of [her] life, her senior year. Instead people dropped her as their friend, talked about her behind her back and to her face. She was lost and confused. People accused her of being the problem.”

This last quote is especially sad.  It was this girls senior year of high school.  Instead of basking in the last year of high school, the prom, the excitement of the future and college, she gets involved with a 54 year old man that manipulates her sexually and even has her considering killing herself because he does not want to be found out.  This is just plain twisted and sick.  The abuse of authority and the hideous control can not be exaggerated.

My sympathies go out to this young woman and her family.

You can read more about this case at the following links:

Holm Pleads Guilty to Felony Criminal Sexual Conduct

Former Youth Director Holm to Serve 11 Months in Prison

Youth Minister Sentenced for Criminal Misconduct

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Minors Are Forbidden By Law (Photo credit: Dan Dickinson)

The following is a quote from a forum on the Cult Education Forum Website.  You can read the whole thread here.  On page 4 of the thread, the moderator for CEF has this to say about Young Life and it’s lack of policies concerning parental consent:

biggun223:

No one here has said that Young Life is a “cult.”

Campus Crusade for Christ and Youth for Christ, are examples of evangelical religious organizations that have chosen to identify their religious agenda within their names.

“Young Life” has not.

I have interviewed both Young Life leaders and members.

I have received serious complaints from families about Young Life. The organization caused these families serious problems. The families would not have approved of their child’s involvement if fully informed from the very beginning (initial contact with their child), but they were not informed. They only found out when their child was profoundly influenced by the group’s religious indoctrination, which led to family conflict.

Young Life has chosen to target minor children in its proselytizing efforts. The organization has the responsibility to inform families from the point of initial contact, not families.

Attempting to place the responsibility and blame on families is wrong. They have no obligation to call you. It is you that are obligated to contact them to seek permission whenever you begin to initially work with a minor child.

You say, “The last thing I want to do is break up a family.”

If this is true then you should require every minor child to take home a consent form after first contact with that child. This form should fully inform the parent[s] and/or legal guardian that Young Life is an evangelistic Christian organization with its religious creed specifically included. The form should provide space for the signed approval/permission of the parent. It should be required that the signed completed form be returned and kept on file at the Young Life office before any further contact with that child.

In my opinion if this is not done Young Life is not operating in an ethical manner regarding its contact with minor children.

Parents have the exclusive right to determine the religious involvement of their own minor children.

You say, “I personally would want my child to have all options available to them so that they could decide for themselves what they choose to believe.”

However, you don’t have the right to make that choice for the children of other families.

You say, “…we will not tell them they have to leave because we haven’t asked their parents yet” and yet you admit that you are a “Christian outreach program…”

What you call “outreach” amounts to proselytizing minor children without parental consent.

Evangelical Christians support Young Life.

See [www.creationtips.com]

The National Association of Evangelicals defines an evangelical as someone:

* who believes that the Bible is authoritative
* who has had a born-again experience
* who shares this message of faith.

To evangelize means you explain your beliefs to others with the view that they might want to adopt your beliefs.

A Princeton University study listed the following denominations as being evangelical:

Assemblies of God, Southern Baptists, Independent Baptists, black Protestants, African Methodist Episcopal, African Methodist Episcopal Zion, Church of Christ, Churches of God in Christ, Lutheran Church — Missouri Synod, National Baptist Church, National Progressive Baptist Church, Nondenominational, Pentecostal denominations, and the Presbyterian Church in America.

Perhaps those parents who support these churches would have no problem with Young Life.

But parents from other denominations and faiths may have serious problems with Young Life staffers sharing their message of faith with their children and in an effort to influence them to adopt those beliefs.

 

Just watching this official Young Life video, leaves the impression that Young Life camp is nothing but none stop fun and trips to the hot tub after a dusty day on the trail, in the mountains, or dune buggy racing.

There’s only one key thing they forgot to mention….

That the majority of your mornings and evenings will be spent listening to hours of Evangelical teaching on the life of Jesus.  When my parents sent me to camp, I was already a Christian and they knew what would happen at camp.  But what about kids and parents who don’t know this?  Shouldn’t they at least have a heads up about the true intentions of Young Life camp?

One of my bone of contentions, is Young Life’s lack of honesty.  What I mean is this,  Young Life is an Evangelical Christian outreach to teens.  Their goal is to win an audience with teens and convert them to an Evangelical form of Christianity.  The problem is, that Young Life leaders are often coached to be vague with non-Christians.  In other words, hiding their true intent to convert teens.  This is deceitful, in my opinion.

Let me give you an example of what I mean.  The following are two quotes from a Young Life Leadership manual published in 2008…,

“How would you explain Young Life?

Christian: Young Life is a Christian outreach to adolescents.
Non Christian: Young Life is a non-profit that connects caring adults with kids.

Christian: Young Life is a ministry that shares Christ with kids through relationships and helps them grow in their faith.
Non Christian: Young Life is a faith-based organization that reaches out to high school and middle school kids through
mentor relationships.”

Notice that the manual is explicitly telling Young Life leaders to use vague, non-religious language when talking to Non-Christians.  The local animal shelter is a non-profit.  The local food bank is”faith-based”.  Big Brother is a mentoring program.

You get the picture, by using vague descriptions, it gives the impression that Young Life is a benign youth program that is fun and safe for kids. Just like other benign faith-based, non-profits in their community.   What these descriptions avoid, is their explicit intent to convert teenagers.

Another example would be this recent promo video for a summer Young Life camp

While it’s true, that your kid or friend will probably do all of the exciting things shown in the video,  it does not show or even hint at the fact, that the focal point of the camp will be Evangelizing teens for the Christian faith.  It offers no glimpse into the many hours spent listening to adult speakers present the Christian faith.  The hours spent each night, as leaders lead discussions centered around the Evangelistic talks.  That the final days of camp will be spent, asking kids to choose whether to become a follower of Jesus and make a public declaration of faith.

And in short, I think it’s deceptive.  I think many a parent has agreed to allow a teen to go on a week of camp with friends from school, only to have a religious convert delivered back to their home.  This sort of parental blindsiding is unfair and deceptive.  Parents (and teens) should be better informed about the faith-based aspects of camp before they are hooked on going because of the fun, sun, and friends.

Jim Rayburn was right, “It’s a sin to bore a kid…”, but I say it’s an even worse sin to deceive a kid.  A sin, Young Life seems all too easy in committing.